CPM related queries

Team,
Not sure if this is the right place to ask this question.
My forum website is working just fine giving me 10000+ unique visitors/month.
I applied for casalemedia & value click got rejected.
I tried :
adsdaq: makes my site slow.
adsense: very bad cpm rates.
adbrite: bad cpm rates.
Tribal fusion: Cant get into (5000 unique visitor/month).
Dony know what to do for CPM. I got so frustated that I have removed all the ads from my website www.itforumz.com
Please let me know what to do.. I am tried of making cents on 65000-80000 page views/month

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